Dreamwork in Gestalt Therapy can be lively and exciting. We discover meanings and connect with our deeper feelings and energies by “living” portions of our dreams. This experiential dreamwork facilitates personal growth and healing.
The Classic Gestalt Dreamwork Process
I illustrate this below by presenting a sample dream of “Sue” (a fictitious character). Sue — who rarely takes risks — dreams of skydiving with her cousin Jake, an adventurous man whom Sue admires.
Step 1. Tell the Dream. In Gestalt Therapy, we typically start by telling a dream in the present tense. For example, Sue might say:
I’m in a small airplane with my cousin Jake. I notice we’re both wearing parachutes. The door of the plane is open and I feel the wind rushing by. I look outside and all I see are clouds and open sky. I can barely see the ground below. I’m scared, yet at the same time I’m eager to get out there, to fly with the wind. Jake says, “Don’t worry. It’s easy.” He crouches in the doorway and leaps out. The next instant, I’m falling through the sky. What a rush!! I see the red and blue of my parachute opening up around me. Then I wake up.
Step 2. Notice What Stands Out. Next, we ask ourselves, What part of the dream stands out to us? A particular scene, event, character, object or abstraction might be especially striking. For example, the sky, the jump, Jake, the plane or the experience of flying or falling might stand out for the dreamer or the therapist/listener. On one important level, all of these images and experiences are part of the dreamer. They may represent the dreamer’s traits, feelings, attitudes or hidden potentials.
Step 3. “Become” Part of the Dream. Next, the dreamer “becomes” a character or object in the dream. One obvious choice for Sue is to “become” Jake. She can then describe herself as Jake and get a sense of what it is like for her to “be” Jake. In this way, she can begin to experience and embody the adventuress in herself. (She could also be the plane, the ground, the open sky, the clouds, the parachute, or the unmentioned pilot.)
Step 4. Dialogue. Sue can then engage in a dialogue between characters or objects in the dream. She can alternately “be,” and give a voice to, one or more dream characters or objects. For example, “Jake” can converse with Sue, or the parachute can speak with the earth below. These dialogues help bring together the diverse aspects of Sue which are scattered among the different images in the dream. In this way, Sue may achieve a greater balance and harmony within herself.
Another option in Gestalt dreamwork is:
Formulate an Existential Statement. An “existential statement” summarizes a basic theme in the dream which is also an important theme in the dreamer’s waking life. For example: “I’m falling through the air, and I feel great!”
This sentence may capture the pleasure of descending from the “height” of Sue’s overly cautious mind into “freefall” — the flow of her life force — rushing perhaps towards a “grounded” sense of self, protected by a parachute which might represent Sue’s inner wisdom.
Of course, “Sue” is a fictitious character. If this were a real dream by an actual person named “Sue,” the exact — and more complete — meaning of the symbols would be discovered by direct experience. When Sue identifies with these symbols — or more accurately, dream elements — she can also access more of her wholeness and aliveness in the process. The symbols embody parts (or dimensions) of her soul, which are expressing themselves in these particular symbolic forms at this time.
You can perform this dreamwork on your own, although it’s often helpful to have at least one other experienced person involved in the process. This can be done in workshops, ongoing groups and individual sessions.
If you’re interested in workshops and groups involving various forms of dreamwork, you can contact the Association for Research and Enlightenment (ARE — www.edgarcayce.org) or International Association for the Study of Dreams (IASD — www.asdreams.org) to help you locate a group or workshop near you. On-line dream sharing and cooperative dreamwork is available through several websites. See the Links page.
For deeper, individualized dreamwork, I recommend private sessions, especially if you are dealing with extremely personal — or very challenging — problems. Not all therapists work experientially with dreams, so you might want to ask about this before you make an appointment.
If you are drawn to the Gestalt approach, see the Links page to help locate a practitioner near you.
To schedule a session with Dr. Laurie Greenberg in New York City (or possibly by Skype or VSee), please contact me directly:
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